- Father Bob Meyer
- 6 days ago
- 2 min read
Good Friday Homily
April 18, 2025
Good Friday is a solemn day that invites us to reflect on the crosses we carry in our own lives. Just as Christ bore His cross with love and perseverance, we are called to embrace our struggles with faith and trust in God’s plan.
The crosses we carry may come in many forms—pain, loss, uncertainty, or personal challenges. Yet, Good Friday reminds us that suffering is not the end of the story. Christ’s sacrifice on the cross was an act of love, showing us that even in our darkest moments, God is present, offering redemption and hope.
Scripture tells us that Simon of Cyrene helped Jesus carry His cross. In the same way, we are called to support one another in times of hardship. When we bear our burdens with love and allow others to help us, we better participate in the mystery of Christ’s Passion.
Believe it or not, this is my 8th Good Friday with you as your pastor. Coming from a simple background in Jersey City, I initially doubted if I could lead here at St. Teresa’s. I remember hearing stories about this great parish at Seton Hall, with its wealth and influential members.
In fact, our parish in Jersey City once borrowed money from St. Teresa’s to make ends meet. It didn’t take long for me to see that material blessings do not shield us from life’s crosses—pain and suffering affect us all, regardless of outward success.
Today, many struggle with illness and health issues, financial hardships, loneliness, grief, persecution, addiction, family conflicts, and spiritual questions. Each cross requires perseverance, faith, and often the support of others.
My personal cross is the pain of falling short of expectations and witnessing disappointments within our community. This Good Friday, I pray that, like Christ, we can find redemption in our hardships and show compassion towards one another.
With faith, perseverance, and support, our crosses can lead us to deeper spiritual growth and compassion. Let’s make this Good Friday truly meaningful by promising to be more like Christ, supporting each other every day.
Blessings!
RSM